The story behind the video.
I am utterly overwhelmed and humbled by the response to this video. At the time I am writing this, it has amassed over 2 million views on Facebook with thousands of comments, messages, and emails to go along with it. I think it’s time to share the story behind this viral video for those who are interested.
***The video has since garnered nearly 100 million view***
I recently was honored with YouTube Next Up. As part of the award I was invited to YouTube Space LA to a one week film school boot camp. We were to film a video there, but no kitchen was available. I was at a loss for what I could possibly film without a kitchen. And that is when the comment happened. It didn’t hurt my feelings and it didn’t surprise me either. Lots of people have commented about my gray hair over the years and I have never been ashamed to share my reasons. I decided to answer the nasty commenter and then share the comment and answer on my personal Facebook page. The response from my friends and family there was overwhelming. At that moment, I knew what my video project would be.
The video was filmed at YouTube Space LA with the assistance of four amazing people (Jay, James, Jerry, and my mentor Julie). I wasn’t sure that I would ever post it anywhere, but used it as an opportunity to experiment with filmmaking and storytelling. I had a script and tried filming that. My amazing friend Jerry told me I needed to do a take where I just spoke from the heart. There I was in a dark room with lights glaring in my eyes. I couldn’t see anyone, just a glint of reflection from the camera lens. I spoke to the camera, to an unknown audience, but mostly to myself. And that’s what you see above.
At the end of the week we screened our projects on a movie theater screen with about 35 people as an audience. I held my breath as mine came on screen, wondering what everyone’s response would be. I felt so naked and vulnerable. It was all so raw. I had no idea I could hold my breath for three and a half minutes! The response from my fellow YouTube creators was overwhelming. They were so encouraging and demanded that I post it. It took me a number of days to actually share it on my YouTube channel. I ended up deciding to share it on Facebook as well at the last minute. I was doing a fundraiser for some friends who are adopting a baby and all the traffic to my blog was being donated to them. I thought the video might generate some more traffic for them. I had no idea that the video would end up being viewed by millions.
The response is humbling. I get comments, messages, and emails of support every few seconds. I am making it a point to read every single one simply because I want to make sure each and every story is heard. I don’t know that I will ever be able to respond to them all and I apologize. There simply aren’t enough hours in the day. I have spent the last several days at my kitchen table reading all of your words. I have wept with you. I have laughed with you. And I have been deeply enriched by the entire experience.
People have created a hashtag (#bethatperson) and the message of self love is spreading. BBC has written an article about the video, and people are campaigning to reach The Ellen DeGeneres Show. I don’t even know what to say. I am at a loss for words. How do you respond to accidentally creating a movement like that? I surely don’t know! What I do know is that I am deeply touched and forever changed by this experience. Thank you. That is all I know how to say.
A small note: To the many sincere desires to help my medical condition: Thank you for your concern. I am currently very happy with my current treatment and am not interested in the many offers I am receiving for medical advice.
First, you are a beautiful woman, and a few grays isn’t going to change that, except to perhaps enhance it. Like you, I have grays and love them. Of course I am quite a bit older than you (at 61) but I see my nearly white hair as a sign of victory for overcoming stage 4 cancer and a major stroke that my neurologist said should have killed me. I am woman. I am gray. I am proud of it!
You are BEAUTIFUL!!! Inside and OUT!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
What a wonderful, powerful message! Thank you! I must show this to my daughter. God bless you!
Hi Rachel, thankyou for sharing your video about your ‘grey hairs’ I am so glad you feel good about yourself now but it isso sad you had to go through so much to get to where you are today. You are beautiful. I am 53 yrs old and it took me till I was 50 to find the right councillor who made me rethink my inner speak! I was horrible to myself so for others to be horrible, it wasn’t a surprise to me. but this past 3 years have been the beginning of a new me. I hope you grow to be much older than you think or have been told you will. You are a beautiful girl and I thankyou for sharing yourself with us.
I’ve watched your video 3 times today. You are so kind and so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your pain and your healing with us. Love & Light my dear!
Hello 🙂 I absolutely love the message you shared, it’s the same message I try to share as often as possible. Lol, though I don’t have a medical condition, I have several gray hairs already as well. They started coming in when I was 16-17. I got freckles and I’m pretty darn comfortable with them! I’m comfortable in my skin and I want to help others feel the same about themselves instead of anxiously trying to perpetuate the ‘image’ society/media would have us all look like.
Bless you for sharing this, bless you for your ongoing battle, bless you and your loved ones.
Looking at youI see only beauty and find it hard to believe that you or anyone else sees anything but beauty. Yes, I know the tricks our minds play on us. I love your message, “Rock your bodies!” Thank you for your message. It goes beyond accepting our bodies and includes accepting ourselves. It includes accepting and supporting others. The world is a better place with you and your voice in it.
I love this. It’s a shame there are so many people out there looking to tear people down. Your response and story were perfect! Thank you.
My fiance also has a very rare autoimmune disease, chronic relapsing polycondritous, so we know what you’re going through. Thank you for this video it meant alot
I never saw you before until today when a friend shared your video. You are a very beautiful person inside and out with a beautiful soul. You are an inspiration.